Our relationships also reveal our self-esteem: How I treat others? How I treat others? My relationship with a partner, I increase my self-esteem or shatters? How to raise my children, guiding their self-esteem or under criticism and indifference? I love my job, I am very proud and I am always complaining about the same? The experience of self-esteem is something that only we can answer because I can tell you a thousand times more than anyone, how valuable it is, how nice, how smart, but if that person does not get you to your inner experience will not matter what I can tell. In human relationships and especially with younger children, is required to shape their self-esteem in real terms, ie, guiding people to their achievements according to their skill, congratulate them when you really are struggling, encourage them to be self-sufficient in their lives and what they should do Self-esteem is a personal experience of being worthy of a dignified life in every way. But do not confuse self-esteem, to give everything, solve everything. A good exercise to begin strengthening our self-esteem: Make a list of ten qualities and ten flaws. Now, instead of focusing on his faults, try every day, lift and work on their qualities and see how you will feel better to be working on their strengths in their flaws I hope this exercise will help you have better vision, respect and self-efficacy mismoa Since this month of love and friendship come to a better self-esteem to feel worthy achieved all of our love and friendship .. Thanks for reading, my mission is the quality of emotional life Cecreto can advise in this regard and we have workshops and courses, plus you can get quality booklets life: If you go to the page and subscribe to the newsletter you always receive useful material in your personal life with your partner and the education of the child. Learn more at this site: BSA. Now we have: “The Ten Commandments of married life.