Third Period of training: Bargain Having left of side the Negation and the Isolation, ' ' percebendo' ' that the anger also did not decide, the person enters in the third period of training; the bargain. The majority of these bargains is made with God and, normally, kept in secret. As hardly the person has some thing to offer the God, beyond its life, and as This she seems to be taking it, she wants the person wants or not, the bargains assume more the characteristics of suplications. The person begs that God has accepted its ' ' oferta' ' in exchange for the life, as for example, its promise of a dedicated life to the church, the poor persons, the charity In the reality, the bargain is an adjournment attempt. In this phase the patient if keeps night watchman, docile reflexive and (not if she can negotiate with God, at the same time where if it antagonizes people). Room Period of training: Depression the Depression appears when the patient takes conscience of its physical atony, when already she does not obtain to deny its conditions of sick person, when the perspectives of the death clearly is felt. Evidently, one is about a evolutiva attitude; to deny did not advance, to attack and if to also rebel not, to make bargains did not decide.
A feeling appears then of great loss. It is the suffering and the psychic pain of who perceives the naked reality and raw, as it is really, it is the full conscience of that we are born and we die alone. Here the depression assumes a more typical and characteristic clinical picture; loss of heart, disinterest, apathy, sadness, I cry, etc. Fifth Period of training: Acceptance In this period of training the patient already does not try the desperation and nor denies its reality. This is a moment of rest and serenity before the long trip.