Remember now How has he reacted to a generous praise. Probably you tried to act to really deserve it. Practice the art of tolerance, understanding, generosity suits you. Think about policy. What differentiates a statesman of a single politician, is the ability to compromise and reach agreements of State, for the benefit of a nation. The statesman invites the opposition to join the both, agree and move forward on important subjects for a country.
It is impossible that a modern statesman use acidic critique and playing with his political adversary. Think about the company. Large employers are generally great leaders, people able to motivate hundreds or thousands of people, of making equipments, excite them and inspire them with their goals and win the hard battle of competition. They do not criticise, they praise, they motivate. Criticizing is a waste of time and money. They know very well that the productivity grows with motivation.
Lycos users. is. Us provides, please handle the criticism, considering the following aspects: 1. delineate the behavior that want to criticize. 2 Make your criticism as specific as possible. 3 Make sure that the behavior which criticizes might change; and if not, do not criticize him. 4 Use statements in first person, and avoid threats and accusations. 5 Make sure that the other person understands his criticism and the reason for the same. Not sputter or talk too fast. Not even the best criticism serves, if the other person does not understand what he says. 6. Do not insist too. A long and repetitive criticism induces, simply, to which the other person is turned off. Nor turn his criticisms in speeches; When the listener is bored, he does not pay attention. 7. Provide incentives for behavior change, and commit to work together to resolve the situation. 8. Do not leave your own negative feelings, stain what is saying.